Yes. The secrets out! Women are a little more complex than men when it comes to having their needs met. To men, our needs seems to change based on the direction of the blowing wind. I tend to believe that our emotions play a large role in that area. However, there are some basic desires of every woman.
1. "Hero: Inquire Within"- It is safe to say that most women long for a hero. They desire for strong arms to keep them safe from harm. Isn't that what God does for us? One of my favorite television shows is The Game. There's an episode where Melanie and Derwin break up after his affair is revealed, and Derwin tries to stop her from moving out. Enter Trey Wiggs (a friend from college and a NFL star). He grips up Derwin, whisks Melanie off to a hotel, buys her a condo, a car, and pays for her tuition. (The Game Part I; The Game Part II; The Game Part III) How romantic! He rescued her out of nowhere and all because he was in love with her, and didn't want her to worry about anything. It wasn't the money spent that endeared the female viewers to Trey. It was the rescue. There was no doubt Trey would protect Melanie at all cost. Even the most independent woman desires to be rescued. Many of the women that claim "they can do it by themselves" have been disappointed by men. They had opened their hearts to men in the past and experienced abandonment, abuse, and/or adultery. Those women simply don't want to be hurt again. But if you can ever make a woman feel safe in your presence...you will find a way into her heart.
2. "Can You Call Things Into Order?"- Have you ever wondered why women gravitate towards powerful men? Powerful and successful men usually can call things into order. When they speak, people listen. This type of man can shift the atmosphere. We are attracted to that type of authority and confidence. Why? Because you are behaving like our Heavenly Father. To us, you are big and strong able to take on the Goliaths of the world.
3. "Am I Your Diamond?"- With all the female competition there is in the world, a woman wants to know that she stands out in your heart. We want to believe that we are so special "you will forsake all others" (sounds familiar?). To know that a man will resist his carnal nature to be faithful to a woman is more attractive than any man will ever know. A faithful man is saying,"You are worth the investment. You are the poem to my life. You are my dream brought into reality."
4. "Affection is Not an Infection!"- Women love men who can be affectionate. We like to be held in a man's arms. Again, it makes us feel safe and under your protection (not control). When a man can transition from being macho with the boys to connecting to their gentler selves, it really does move us. The thought of a man feeling safe enough in a woman's presence to let his guard down is almost intoxicating. In our mind the conversation goes like this, "Wow. You feel so comfortable around me that you are willing to share your heart." A mature and godly woman will treasure this side of you. She will cover your heart with all that is in her.
Dear Man of God,
This information should be used in the purest sense. If you are searching for your woman of God, by all means gain wisdom from this entry. Use it to find your queen and be blessed by all God has promised you in a mate.
I do love you,
Dapoet
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